Updated: Mar 24, 2019
Christmas has passed, but gift giving needs to continue. Start with the gift of hope. This month many adult children of divorce are contemplating what they swore they’d never do to their children—filing for divorce.
This is not a sudden whim. Months or years of feeling unloved, disrespected, or fearful they aren’t good enough to keep their spouse, or tired of arguments that raise fearful memories from childhood, have combined with the stresses of life to squeeze out any hope.
Satan whispers “things will never change” and they think, “Now I see why Mom divorced Dad.” “Now Dad’s leaving makes sense.” However, few want to ruin Christmas, so January comes, and the call is made.
These precious individuals need the gift of hope and you can help.
Be a godly ear for them to talk to. You’d be surprised how many people file for divorce without talking to anybody.
Watch their kids on a weekend night so the struggling couple can have time together.
Buy them tickets to a marriage retreat.
Review and have them review our Considering Divorce page. Even those with divorced parents rarely understand the gravity and lifelong consequences of this drastic action. PUSH! Now is not the time for timidity. Too often I hear, “Well, I don’t want to rock the boat by interfering.” THE BOAT IS SINKING! You have nothing to lose and everything to gain by offering tools and hope to the hopeless.
The Bible says, “pray without ceasing”* and that, “The earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results.” **
Pray for your friend, family member, or coworker’s marriage.
Pray for protection from Satan’s attacks of doubt, fear, hate, and selfishness. Pray works!
It’s the biggest month for divorce calls and the lawyers know it. Let’s work together to thwart more divorces by giving the gift of hope this new year.
* 1 Thessalonians, 5:17, ESV ** James 5:16b, NLT